Sunday, January 26, 2014

LOST



LOST IN THOUGHT….NEVER ABOUT LIFE BUT IN THE CONDEMNATION OF SELF

LOST IN THE OCEAN OF IDEAS …. THAT WAS NEVER MINE

LOST IN THE REJECTION OF MINE …. ONLY ABRACADABRA OF VOODOO FOR FUFU

LOST IN THE CLAIM OF TIME …. ONLY TO DOUBT MY EXISTENCE

LOST IN THE FUMES OF LIQUOR…. ONLY TO THE ILLUSIONARY BREW

LOST IN TRANCE …. ONLY TO COMMUNE WITH MIRAGE

LOST IN QUESTIONS ….. ONLY FOR THEM TO ELOPE IN SENTIMENTS

LOST IN ME … ONLY TO BE DISCOVERED IN THE BROKEN GLASS

THE SEXUAL MINORITY AND LEGISLATIVE ZEALOTRY



By: Prof. Wole Soyinka
Let us go back a little, nearly a year ago, to that earlier attempt to interfere in, and legislate on sexual conduct between consenting adults. Profiting from that experience, I would like to caution – yet again - that it is high time we learnt to ignore what we conveniently designate and react to as ‘foreign interference’.  By now, we should be able to restrict ourselves to the a priori position that, as rational beings, we make pronouncements on choices of ethical directions from our own collective and/or majority will, independent of what is described as ‘external dictation’. The noisome emissions that surged from a handful of foreign governments last year should not be permitted to obscure the fundamental issue of the right to private choices of the free, adult citizen in any land – Asian, African, European etc. Those external responses were of such a nature - hysterical, hypocritical and disproportionate – that, speaking for myself at least, I could only wonder if they had not been generated by a desperate need for distraction away from the economic crisis that confronted, at that very time, those parts of the world.
Hopefully, the majority of Nigerians have also learnt to sniff out ploys of legislative distraction within the nation.  At that initial attempt to cloak prurience in legislative watchfulness, the timing of the removal of the oil subsidy was coincident with a sudden obsession with homosexual and lesbian conduct. Was this truly an accident of timing?  And now? Attempting to mobilize public sentiment against what many, admittedly, do consider deviant sexual conduct certainly takes attention away from the crumbling of society and the failures of governance in multiple directions. These range from minimal infrastructural expectations to mind-boggling escalation of corrupt practices in high places, and the basic issue of security in day-to-day existence of the populace as it affects high and low, affluent or impoverished, old and young, regardless of profession or records of service to Nigerian humanity.  
But, to begin with, I implore all those who boast the capacity for reason: let us separate two distinct, albeit related issues within that one bill tabled before our legislatures. One issue is: homosexual practice; the other, same-sex marriage. I first became aware of, and alarmed by, the conflation of the two – quite deliberate in most cases - when, after a lecture at the University of Technology, Calabar,  a year ago, I advised the legislators to mind the numerous, and urgent businesses for which they were elected, and take their noses out of sexual practices between consenting adults.  Either deliberately – as I have already indicated – or thanks to the now familiar deficiency in listening that sadly characterizes Nigerian responses to public pronouncements, the main reactions were unleashed against something I had not even commented upon, which was:  same-sex marriage. With the now confirmed outing of this bill however, the law-makers have served notice that their monitoring zeal is intended at nothing less than the right of state interference in private lives, especially in personal relations of the most intimate kind. This is the warning shot of legislative fascism. It has no place in a democracy.
Basically, such legislations constitute improper encroachment on personal lives, leaving the door wide open for all forms of social persecution, intimidation and even – as we know very well in this society – incitement to violence against targeted individuals, including lynching.  Next, as several nations all over the world have come to acknowledge after centuries of blindness and hideous injustice, such state interventions glorify ignorance of the science of the human body, and contribute to the elevation of limited or zero knowledge on any subject to the altar of the morally sacrosanct.
The biological truth is this: some are born with imprecise gender definition, even when they have sexual organs that appear to define them male or female. Years, indeed decades, of scientific research have gone into this, so what is needed is understanding and acceptance, not emotionalism and the championing of ‘moral’ or ‘traditional’ claims.  Let us take the first. For those who base their position on moralities extracted from received scriptures, permit me to state bluntly that articles of faith are no substitute for scientific verities, no matter how passionately such faiths are embraced or espoused, or for how long. In any case, faith is also a very private matter, so what we have here is simply one private plaintiff, a ‘conscientious objector’, attempting to lord it over the rights of another private entity, this time one that yields to sexual impulses in obedience to Biological Scriptures. Now, which one should lay claim to precedence?
We must make up our minds where we belong.  We must choose either to create a society that is based on secular principles, or else surrender ourselves to the authority of - no matter whose - theocratic claims. What this implicates is that the next time a woman is sentenced to be buried live in the ground and stoned to death on the authority of one set of scriptures, other scripture adherents must learn to hold their peace and allow such ‘laws’ to run their course. The full implications of either position leave no room for fence-sitting. The national train must run either on secular rails or derail at multiple theocratic switches. No theology can be privileged over another in the running of society.  This means, theology and its derivates cannot be privileged over material reality and its derivatives.
The science of the body is not limited to issues of consenting adults alone. It is what guides the making of laws in rational societies, what makes the law frown decisively on sexual relations with the under-aged, and spells out just what the law means by ‘underage’ in specific years of existence. Adult males earn several years in prison for sexual relations with the under aged because scientific knowledge has identified – beyond argument – the often irreparable damage that is done to a pre-pubescent body through sexual penetration by males. Society therefore protects the potential victim. Has an adult homosexual run to the law for protection in any society we know of? Only where they have been, or are in danger of becoming victims of rape – and there, the law is firmly on their side. Otherwise, the law should have no interest whatsoever in any form of consensual sexual conduct between adults.
So far, we have only addressed the issue of the homosexual act itself as it should concern – or should not – a nation’s legislatures.  Let us now turn to the related problem of same-sex marriages. My interest is not – as a hysterical prelate, among others, tried to over-simplify in his reaction to my observation in Calabar – it is not whether or not homosexual marriages should be permitted or banned. Let us take it step by step. 
The issue, to start with, is - ‘criminalisation’!  Perhaps such marriages exist in Nigeria – I am not aware of them. But we do know that homosexual liaisons exist. Are they granted the status of marriage? Not that I am aware of. Was there a threat somewhere that this might soon happen? Are they a menace to society? Again, all this is shrouded under legislative mystery. No case, to the best of my knowledge, has been brought to public notice where a court registry has been compelled to register same-sex marriages. No priest has been hauled up so far for sanctifying such a marriage. Always open to debate is the right of institutions (civil or state) to be part of the formal mechanisms for pledges that adults undertake in their relations with one another. Priests – of any religious adherence – remain free to refuse to become involved in the ceremonies of such associations. Individuals cannot be compelled to endorse such conduct. It remains their right to privately ostracize or embrace such liaisons – formal or informal.
The state however overreaches itself where it moves to criminalize them. Biology takes precedence over ‘moral’ sentiment. Physiological compositions are increasingly held responsible for a number of mental and/or physical predispositions. Only in the past few decades was schizophrenia successfully tracked backwards to – among other causes - the contraction by mothers of some forms of ailment during pregnancy, as well as to genetic transmission. We should learn to listen wherever the voice of the empirical can be called upon to testify in human conduct.
On the ‘moralists‘, we urge a sense of proportion, and a turn towards objectivity. Yes, a society without moral signposts is only a glorified arena of brute instincts. Nonetheless, morality is far too often mired in subjectivity, sometimes touted as ‘revelation’, erected on untested foundations, increasingly subject to mass hysteria and manipulation. Morality therefore – we must re-emphasize - when applied to the private realm of the human body,  must take second place to biology - morality either as derived from cultural usage or religious givens. We are speaking of – plain biological human composition, over which no individual has any control whatsoever. No individual was responsible for his or her birth, for emerging as a precocious being, a budding genius, or handicapped - either mentally or physiologically.  Those who evoke ‘morality’ so loosely should take care that they do not keep company with theocratic warlords like al-Shabaab of Somalia, who instituted amputation at the wrist for anyone found guilty of the ‘immoral’ act of shaking hands with a fellow human being of the opposite sex!
Permit me to address some of the anxieties – publicly addressed or not – that I happen to have encountered. No one denies the perverse agency of ‘peer pressure’ in certain societies – or institutions - where homosexuality is considered ‘fashionable’, or even becomes a membership card for advancement in some professions.  It is also the admissible right of the individual to experience and express disgust at the mere thought of homosexual conduct: the complement, incidentally, also obtains among some homosexuals with regard to heterosexual practice. I have encountered some who declare that the very thought of heterosexual act makes them sick.  Also, there exist the bi-sexual individuals who live and die at ease – or with resignation - with their complex anatomy. None of these tendencies justifies criminalization.
The heterosexual – or ‘straight’, to use that tendentious expression - minds his or her business like the rest. Laws, if any are promulgated in these cases, should be towards the protection of the vulnerable in society, vulnerable from whatever cause, including deviations from the sexuality of the majority genders. Non-consensual conduct is a different matter, or coercion, such as rape or other forms of sexual abuse, and these apply both to the homosexual and the heterosexual. I have had occasion to intervene in boarding schools to demand protection for some young pupils whose lives were bedeviled by sexual harassment from their senior colleagues. Their teachers turned a deaf ear to the victims’ complaints to an extent that virtually amounted to connivance. Now that is one area against which legislators might usefully want to turn their legislative ire – such teachers deserve to be brutally purged from their positions and made to face prosecution. 
I shall be remiss if I do not also to address the appalling evidence of hypocrisy among the law makers. New laws are being proposed for private conduct that has never constituted a danger to the fabric of society. By contrast, the notorious violation of existing laws by a member of the law-making fraternity was rendered a non-event by a conspiratorial silence, amounting to connivance and enthronement of impunity. 
A former governor and present Senator violated the laws of two lands – Egypt and Nigeria – through his sexual behaviour. Serial paedophilia and cross-border sex trafficking are criminalized near universally. Laws for the protection of minors are rigorously enforced in civilized societies. On that, and allied issues, the law-making conclaves of wise men and women remained mute or conciliatory. An opportunity to enforce the existing laws in high places as a high profile deterrent to others was simply discarded. No new laws have been proposed, not even as a sop to outraged public conscience, to re-criminalize such acts, yet the legislatures take time off to make laws that criminalize private conduct that have not constituted a threat to the well-being of the vulnerable in society.
Is it too much to ask that our legislators cool their moral ardour for a study period during which they seek to understand a phenomenon that many hold abhorrent? (Please note: this is not intended as yet another incentive to undertake expensive study tours around the world – the relevant publications are available everywhere.)  If there are scientific explanations for homosexual conduct - and these have been expounded in profusion - then a process of education is called for, enabling a more empathetic response to what appears an aberration to the majority. That it appears an aberration to some does not however make it immoral or socially subversive.  And foreign interventionists should – let me repeat - at least exercise a sense of proportion, recalling that even within their own societies, such issues are still up for debate, with see-saw decisions between state and federal courts – examples include the United States - right up to the present.
The high moral grounds that those nations attempt to occupy by hurling threats of sanctions etc etc. merely strike one as extreme cases of hypocrisy, unmindful of their own scriptural injunctions that urge: ‘Physician, heal thyself ”

Culled from: http://www.thisdaylive.com/articles/the-sexual-minority-and-legislative-zealotry/132815/

Tuesday, January 21, 2014

NIGERIA: HOMOSEXUALITY IS NOT UN-AFRICAN, HOMOPHOBIA IS (OPINION)

By Ijabla Raymond* / Monday, 20 January 2014
In Nigeria, university lecturers have been on strike for nearly 6 months; medical doctors are contemplating going on strike; the roads are death traps; people rely on generators for power as electricity supply is epileptic ; people have to sink wells or boreholes to supply their own homes with water; those who can’t have to buy water off the street from water vendors; Nigeria remains one of only three countries in the world where polio is endemic, the other two being Pakistan and Afghanistan; our hospitals are poorly resourced and people with money fly abroad for routine health checks; we have one of the highest infant and maternal mortality rates in the world; many state governments have refused to adopt the Child Rights Act, and those which have, are failing to enforce it; child marriages occur with reckless impunity and no one appears interested in banning the practice anytime soon; you get 7 years for raping a woman but 14 years for a consensual same-sex intercourse; we rely on foreign aid to assist with poverty alleviation despite our stupendous wealth; our government is one of the most corrupt in the world etc.
But guess what? The Nigerian government has chosen to prioritise anti-gay law over all of these pressing needs. The government feels that legislating on what two consenting adults choose to do in their closet takes precedence over all of the aforementioned problems.

Sadly, but as expected, this law has turned out to be very popular with Nigerians, who say that homosexuality is wrong because it contravenes God’s principles in the Quran and the Bible. They say that homosexuality is wrong because it is un-African, foreign and that it will lead to a de-population of the human race. But, if I may ask, what is African about Christianity and Islam? These religions are foreign to us and are very un-African, when are we going to ban them too?

Homosexuality is as old as human history and it exists in all human races. It even occurs amongst animals. Gay people lived freely and even got married in many African cultures pre-colonisation. It was colonisation, through the instrument of the twin foreign religions, Christianity and Islam, which criminalised homosexuality. Till date, those who live in northern Nigeria will be very familiar with the “yan daudu” – the third gender men who can be anything from transvestites, homosexuals, to bisexuals. I grew up in northern Nigeria and I remember how well these individuals were accepted – their lifestyles were even featured in TV dramas.

My question to those who say that homosexuality will lead to a de-population of the human race is: When should we start jailing heterosexual couples who practise anal and oral sex or couples who suffer from infertility or those couples who use contraception?

And to those who say that homosexuality is wrong because the Bible or Quran God said so, first of all, may I remind you that these religions are foreign to Africa and were instruments of slavery? They were used to subjugate our forefathers. Secondly, if we say that God is omnipotent or omniscient, then we must accept that it was His grand design and plan to create homosexuals, so, why destroy them?

Who would believe, that in the 21st century, we would still be making laws based on books that were written a few thousand years ago by men who reasoned that diseases were caused by demons and evil spirits? We need to separate religion from the State, it’s only in doing so that we can guarantee and uphold the human rights of all people.

This anti-gay law smirks of gross ignorance of our own history and culture. If we are going to make laws, then let’s do so from a position of knowledge and best evidence, and not ignorance or religious bigotry. I have included links at the bottom of this article for those who wish to know more about “yan daudu”, homosexual practices in pre-colonised Africa or the practice of adult men using young boys as sex slaves in Afghanistan (the dancing boys). I believe there are similar practices in Arab countries.

President Jonathan (GEJ) and his government have succeeded in distracting Nigerians from our main problem – corruption. I have seen photos of harmless gay people on news media being hounded into the back of vans with their hands cuffed, but those who steal our collective wealth and cause us untold hardship and death are not only walking freely, they are even worshipped by some of us. I will not be surprised if GEJ gets voted back into office for a 2nd term on the back of this popular, but inhumane, anti-gay law. I weep for this country.

* Ijabla Raymond is an MD of Nigerian heritage writing from the UK

Culled from: http://www.afrika.no/Detailed/24744.html

NIGERIA: THE ANTI-GAY BILL: DON'T FALL FOR JONATHAN'S DISTRACTION TACTIC

African Arguments, by James Schneider* / Monday, 20 January 2014
Before last week, the lot of Nigeria's homosexuals was not to be envied. But on 7 January, embattled president Goodluck Jonathan signed a bill into law that made their situation even worse. Now, in Nigeria, homosexual acts are punishable by a 14-year jail sentence, while aiding gay activism and gay groups is banned.
However, while this bill plays well to a domestic audience, homophobia is not the only motive behind these unsavoury measures. The law is a calculated move to change the focus of the Nigerian political debate at a time when Jonathan's luck appears to be running out.
In his 2011 presidential campaign, Jonathan promised to transform Nigeria's corrupt, oil-dependent and unequal economy into the powerhouse it could be. He had many of the tools to do it: some impressive ministers, enormous majorities in the National Assembly and the Senate, control over most state governments, and a stable multi-ethnic, multi-confessional party. But three years on, the government is paralysed by multiple crises – not least, an era-defining split in the ruling People's Democratic Party (PDP) and increased ethnic, religious, and regional tensions. Jonathan even asked his celebrated central bank governor, Sanusi Lamido Sanusi, to resign for daring to speak out against elite corruption.
It seems that as his position weakens, Jonathan is scrambling for a populist measure that will give him the domestic support he so desperately needs. And in a socially conservative society, an anti-gay position might prove enough of a distraction to relieve some pressure. But the debate over homosexuality in Nigeria, as in some other African countries, is about more than what happens in the bedroom. This bill is designed to stir up anger at an idea of imposed Western values, helping create solidarity at home by directing anger outwards. Why else would the law be presented as an “anti-gay marriage” bill, when few if any local activists were calling for gay marriage?
By signing the bill into law, Jonathan is banking on the idea that an inevitable reproach from the international community will serve as an excellent positive feedback mechanism, giving ground to fears of outside interference in African affairs. This, despite the fact that Nigeria inherited its laws criminalizing homosexuality from British colonial rule.
Furthermore, although Western media tends only to pick up on these kinds of stories when something awful happens, this bill itself is not new. Several versions of it have already passed through the National Assembly, and it has, in effect, been sitting in Jonathan's in-tray ready to be deployed when he needs it most for more than two years.
Distraction tactics
With faith and community groups coming out in support of the bill, and a broadly favourable social media buzz, Jonathan can be satisfied with a good response. The editors of Nigeria's newspapers are still focusing on Jonathan's political difficulties, but growing opprobrium from Western leaders could soon knock these more damaging stories off the front pages.
Unfortunately, homophobia in Nigeria isn't a problem that Western strong-arming can fix. Indeed, a de-contextualized response is only likely to strengthen Jonathan's hand. Worse, it could incentivise other leaders to follow the example of Uganda's president Yoweri Museveni and Nigeria's Jonathan and drag out anti-gay legislation and sentiment as an easy fix for bad press.
US Secretary of State John Kerry's censure of Nigeria over this bill or UK Prime Minister David Cameron's proposals to tie aid to gay rights sound progressive if you're sitting in London or New York. But that's precisely the point. These statements mostly serve to satisfy a domestic audience, rather engage with LGBTQ activists struggling on the ground in Nigeria for equality.
It is of course important that Western politicians are seen to support gay rights in Nigeria, but some of the ways in which they tend to profess their solidarity belies a lack of understanding of the lived reality of LGBTQ people in oppressive societies. For example, if the West were to withdraw aid and punish all Nigerians for Jonathan's decision to use hate as a distraction for incompetence, the likelihood is that homosexual communities, for whom life is already dangerous, will become the scapegoats. More cautious routes are needed. Peter Tatchell, or instance, suggests that governments should look to deliver aid via grassroots organizations that won't discriminate.
Nigeria's most recent abuse of gay rights is particularly perverse because it has been done for grubby political reasons. I suggest that we on the outside undercut Jonathan's feint by highlighting not only the abhorrent content of the bill, but also the motivations behind its passing. Then, perhaps, it won't be so easy for failing leaders to cover up their incompetence with hatred.
*James Schneider is the Editor-in-Chief of Think Africa Press.

Culled from: http://www.afrika.no/Detailed/24745.html

Friday, January 17, 2014

NIGERIA SAME SEX MARRIAGE (PROHIBITION) ACT, 2013


                                                                                                     A BILL
                                                 
                                                                             FOR
                      
                      An Act to prohibit a marriage contract or civil union entered into between
                      persons of same sex, solemnization of same; and for related matters.

                                                                      Comment.

                           ENACTED by the National Assembly of the Federal Republic
                           of Nigeria:

                                  Prohibition of marriage or civil union by persons of same sex.
                           
                         1.    (1)  A marriage contract or civil union entered into between                                                                                                persons of same sex:                                                              
                                                                                                                                       
                                            (a)  is prohibited in Nigeria; and                                         
                                            (b)  shall not be recognised as entitled to the benefits of
                                                  a valid marriage.

                                      Solemnization of same sex marriage in places of worship.

                                  (2)  A marriage contract or civil union entered into between
                                        persons of same sex by virtue of a certificate issued by a
                                        foreign country is void in Nigeria, and any benefit
                                        accruing there-from by virtue of the certificate shall not be
                                        enforced by any court of law.

                           2.    (1)  A marriage contract or civil union entered into between                                                                                             persons of same sex shall not be solemnized in a church,                                                                           mosque or any other place of worship in Nigeria.                            
                                                                                                                                                     
                                  (2)  No certificate issued to persons of same sex in a marriage                   
                                        or civil union shall be valid in Nigeria. 

                                                          Recognized marriage in Nigeria. 

                          3.          Only a marriage contracted between a man and a woman                                                                                          shall be recognized as valid in Nigeria.                                            
                                                                                                                                                      
                                               Registration of homosexual clubs and societies. 

                          4.    (1)  The Registration of gay clubs, societies and organisations,          
                                       their sustenance, processions and meetings is prohibited.                
                                                                                                                                                                                                     (2)  The public show of same sex amorous relationship directly
                                        or indirectly is prohibited.

                                                                Offences and penalties.

                         5.     (1)  A person who enters into a same sex marriage contract or            
                                       civil union commits an offence and is liable on conviction                 
                                       to a term of 14 years imprisonment.

                                 (2)  A person who registers, operates or participates in gay
                                       clubs, societies and organisation, or directly or indirectly
                                       makes public show of same sex amorous relationship in
                                       Nigeria commits an offence and is liable on conviction to a
                                       term of 10 years imprisonment.

                                 (3)  A person or group of persons who administers, witnesses:
                                       abets or aids the solemnization of a same sex marriage or
                                       civil union, or supports the registration, operation and
                                       sustenance of gay clubs, societies, organisations,
                                       processions or meetings in Nigeria commits an offence and
                                       is liable on conviction to a term of 10 years imprisonment.
                                        
                                                                            Jurisdiction.

                     6.              The High court of a State or of the Federal Capital Territory            
                                      shall have jurisdiction to entertain matters arising from the
                                      breach of the provisions of this Act.

                                                                          Interpretation.

                    7.               In this Act:                                                                                    

                                    "marriage" means a legal union entered into between persons
                                     of opposite sex in accordance with the Marriage Act, Islamic
                                     Law or Customary Law;
                                   "Court" means High court of a State or of the Federal Capital
                                    Territory;
                                   "same sex marriage" means the coming together of persons of
                                     the same sex with the purpose of living together as husband
                                     and wife or for other purposes of same sexual relationship;
                                   "witness" means a person who Signs or witnesses the solemnisation 
                                     of the marriage; 
                                   "civil union" means any arrangement between persons of the  same 
                                     sex to live together as sex partners, and includes such descriptions as: 

                                             (a) adult independent relationships;
                                             (b) caring partnerships;
                                             (c) civil partnerships;
                                             (d) civil solidarity pacts;
                                             (e) domestic partnerships;
                                             (f) reciprocal beneficiary relationships;
                                             (g) registered partnerships;
                                             (h) significant relationships; and
                                             (i) stable unions.

                                                                           Citation.           

                    8.          This Act may be cited as the Same Sex Marriage (Prohibition)                    
                                 Act, 2013.
                                                                                                                      

Tuesday, January 14, 2014

HOMO-CULTURE IN PRE-COLONIAL YORUBA TRADITION: KING JAYIN, THE EFFEMINATE AND DISSOLUTE KING



INTRODUCTION

The early history of most cultures are part purely legendary, and that of the history of the Yoruba nation is not different, it is involved in obscurity, the people being unlettered, the language unwritten all that is known is from traditions carefully handed down (S. Johnson, 1921).

In Yoruba, the king is considered sacred, they are venerated as gods, and some have been deified, like Sango (Olufinran), and it is unthinkable for a man to lay his hands upon a being that is considered sacred, so a king cannot be killed, even after he is being rejected by the people, he can invariably commit suicide. That is why the Yorubas have the saying, Iku baba yeye, Alase ikeji orisa, (i.e the father of my mother, second only to the gods).

KING JAYIN

King Jayin was the son of Karan. He was describe as an “effeminate and dissolute prince, whose harem was filled with all sorts of characters” (S.Johnson, 1921)(P.170)

The post-colonial Yoruba culture being a patriarchal one puts a lot of emphasis on the display of gender roles, and any one that does not fit into these socially acceptable roles is considered, either effeminate or discordant as in the case of king Jayin, because pre-colonial Yoruba culture finds such acceptable with the confines of the tradition, that is why, we have a female regent (Iyayin).

Supporting this notion, Davis and Whitten (1987) reported the “a wide variety of homosexual behavior is reported, including lesbianism in polygynous households where the use of artificial phalli was a compensation for a rare heterosexual intercourse (p.20). (Ben Anderson, The politics of Homosexuality in Africa, Africana Journal, Vol. 1, No.1, 2007).

The king was married, but he was considered effeminate and dissolute, is a misconception about homosexuality, that gay males are effeminate, which the writer was able to show in also describing him as a dissolute king. According to the Merriam-Webster dictionary, dissolute means that “one who ,lacks restraint and indulging in like promiscuous sex and degrading to human nature.

One cannot but think, why someone who is effeminate should be so described in such strong terms, noting that someone who can be such described, would be displaying feminine qualities untypical of a man. But the writer used the strong term of dissolute to describe him based on his religion, Christianity. The prejudice and the marginalization of homosexuality are attributed to the missionaries’ outright condemnation of the practice (Pincheon. B: An Ethnography of Silences: Race, (Homo)Sexualities, and a discourse of Africa, African studies review, 2000, p.5).

The king was acceptable to his people, his sexual orientation then was not a barrier for him becoming the king even after his despotic father, Karan, although the community were aware of his orientation even before becoming the king.
This alluded to the fact that homosexuality was an acceptable sexual orientation in pre-colonial Yoruba tradition.

CONCLUSION

From the forgoing it shows that the universal expectations in cultures intolerant of gay people that males will be erotically affected only by what the culture regards as feminine, and females only by culturally defined masculinity, lead inevitably to the anticipation that males who which attract other males will be effeminate and females erotically interested in females will be masculine.

The Yoruba tradition does not tolerate but accept homosexuality as an alternative lifestyle, not as homogenal but really a homosexual relationship, that is consensual and not frown upon by the society.

Although there are few scholarly researches on the person of King Jayin, this piece is meant to stir up that conversation along the line.

It is pertinent to note that the limitations of conscious research are limited and one cannot expect and should not demand from instrical sources to the proof of emotional states.





Friday, January 10, 2014

IGNORANCE



We crawl with the ignorance of ridicule…..

Bent over in the pool of shameful gullibility…..

Dance the triumphant dance in myriads of failure…..

Pretend success in the can of failure worms…….

                          Proclaim victory over the imaginary enemies……

Looking for the lost gem, when our pockets were filled with them….

Throw the killer punch … only to fight our own shadows…

Thought we know it all …. only in the midst of ignorance…

Hide under the cloak of culture… when we never had any….         
                                              
Flush down our tradition … only to open the sewer of stinking influences….

Never thought we had it but …… only to brandish the key to ownership…

Ownership that was never ours…. But belongs to the mirage of our minds…..

ETERNITY



We fear the unknown......because we want control......


We fear tomorrow ....because we might lose today....


We fear today ...... because of the future........


We fear .....because we believe......


We fear God ....but none has seen Him.....


we dread Satan .....but He is without horns.....


We believe .... we call it faith.....


We fear .... fear itself...


We want control ... yet we are complacent...


We want heavenly bliss.... yet we fear death.....


We want life..... we fear the sight of unconsciousness....


We want eternity .... we kill for it .......


CONSCIENCE

It hunts you like a prey…… creates the sensation of a criminal…

 Arrests you without holding you down……

 When he comes around, you willingly ask him to dinner……. 

You sleep in his bosom, but he cuddles you in his thorns…. 

His laughter makes you shiver with cold…… 

His smile, just what you need to walk to the jailer…… 

A visitor that is uninvited, but always willingly to open your doors to him……. 

His visit!!!!! Just what you make you check your BP….. 

In his sea of rules, you get calmness…..

 His ocean of regulations…… results in peace…..

DAY

Each time, I look forward to you………Because you make me closer to my dreams, 

 You inspire my passion …….. 

 You talk to me, encourage me, guide me……

But sometimes you make me wake to see you cry, weep so much that everywhere is wet…….. 

Sometimes you glow that I am afraid to come closer…… 

 Oh! My Lovely Day! 

 Thanks for the journey you make each second to become minutes….. 

 You are never tired to move further to become hours……. 

 Your zeal makes you to be you and drives you for weeks, propels you for months and become years…..

 So that I can never stop longing and loving you……..because your glide …. Makes me grow.